Should the United States make a strong effort to apply secondary prevention efforts in the case of abuse? Should, for example, teenage mothers be tracked, monitored, and required to attend parenting classes?
Should US Government make a strong effort to apply secondary prevention efforts in the case of abuse?
teenage mothers neglect, they're young and still want to have fun..
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secondary, tirtiary, when it all comes down to it you'll only help a couple more people than u would have otherwise, and you'll harm more because you'd put those families on welfare because they don't have the time to work, go to parenting classes and raise their kid...
and then people would assume the problem was taken care of, and people like my mom would never get caught, she wasn'y on drugs, she wasn't young, she didn't even get beat during her childhood (all her siblings did tho and they all admitted they had a problem with discipling their kids) and she wasn't poor, she just didn't seem like the type, so later when it all came out all the neighborhood kids wanted to know everything about what she'd do, and they believed me, so I told them, and my sister started wanting attention so she changed the stories, and none of the adults believed us, or ME, or MY stories even tho I obsessed over making everything as accurate as you can remember something you want badly to forget...
but abuse is horrible, I guess if there was a way to prevent it without other kids getting neglected it would be good,,, you can tell, once you've been through it, for a certain while afterwards till you manage to forget everything, who's gone through it before, and who is, you can sense it, and not just that, you have a sixth sense which tells you when someone's like the abuser you know so well, you know everyone's personality by the tiniest indications of your abuser's or your own, if there was a way to just confront those people you overhear at the mall who you know go through it, and see if they wanted out, then you could act on it and save so many people, but some people love the person who treats them like that, and when it's not horrible, it's better to just let them be...
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